Comments on: relationship help…?

By: rodeoclick

rodeoclick — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 14:24:59 +0000

upon reading this I am having a hard time seeing how you matched on eharmony with the lack in common interests. but when you met her and got to know her there was something about her that caught your eye and got your heart involved. being an outsider looking in and understanding there are two sides to every story I would suggest you find what it was that you love about this woman and build on that. Relationships are work, there are no easy ones as you are both different people. Knowbody is perfect and you have to love the imperfections right along with the perfections. as for the financial issues (and being self employed myself) you must have another source of income to maintain your household until your self employment can meet and exceed that income. With the economy the way it is today I would suggest picking up extra employment until you can support yourself and her with your online business. I know it may sound silly using an accronym for help but you have to K.I.S.S it. (Keep It Simple Stupid) and it works with any walk of life. if it is finances that are the root of your current problems don’t be on the defensive, fix it! if it were your vehicle that was broke down would you fight and argue about not wanting to fix it? chances are you would fix it! Most relationship problems stem from finances and lack of communication, try to keep your lines of communication open and show her you are trying by getting a new job so there are two incomes.
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self experience. if you need to talk you can IM me my SN is Rodeopixy

By: Shawn

Shawn — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 14:05:59 +0000

Say dude, I know this is a bit off topic but i’m also looking for a online business for myself, if you can, send me a email and we can talk more about it. I could use some ideas on how to get started, ect.

As for your girl dude, I say this. I know you love her, but if she can’t support you through ruff times (a girls most shining moment), then I wouldn’t be with her. That just means in a sense, she is using you, in a degree.

You need someone who going to stick with you through thick and thin. Those are the people that really love you and a support spouse could really get you far in life. If she can’t provide that, then I would move on, inspite how hard it would be.

Also, you guys don’t have hardly anything in common, so I would look for a girl where you guys share interests in, she could help you with your business, you know?

Anyway, send me a email if you can. Thanks.
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By: Renae R

Renae R — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 13:55:59 +0000

A good relationship is supporting each other with your own desires and career opps.Its not a 50/50 anymore its a full 100%. Maybe you should just come out and ask her if she really wants a relationship togther as a couple not all one sided.Good Luck
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By: CowboysFan

CowboysFan — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 13:33:59 +0000

if you have ANY doubts you guys should break it off. If my fiance' was thinking he didn't want to be with me, i would want to know and we could either fix the problem or leave each other. she shouldn't blame everything on you, times are hard and sometimes you cant do much about it. but money is the root of all evil and i read an article the other day about how that's what pulls people apart and the leading cause of divorce. so i would tell her either lets talk this out, or you have to go. just give it to her Straight. i know its hard but coming from a girl that's how i would want to be told i guess.
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By: Lauren

Lauren — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 12:43:59 +0000

well if u r asking urself this now don't get married talk to her and see what she has to say she prob doesnt know that u feel this way its tough living in a relationship but hey thats life 4 ya
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